Children discipline

Children disciplining is an issue that varies from country to country. Some people discipline their children in the easiest way ever (advising, grounding) while others would take drastic measures (wiring, beating, hurting).

This issue, to me should be in unison worldwide for all children are the same irrespective of their country of origin. This post's purpose is to distinguish between the harsh method and the cool method. In the end, we'll analyse which is better.

The harsh way

1. This means of child discipline is done in countries in Africa, Asia and some divisions of America and Europe.

2. This act is mostly done by poor men (in general, people who are frustrated).

3. It makes the child to hide his true identity (he wouldn't do it anywhere around the parents but might keep doing the scolded act at another venue)

4. This act when observed well, brings fear and anger into the mind of the child (making the child to hate you and not been able to reach out to you)

5. In continuation of no. 4, if you continuously beat your child, he'll be unable to report abuses done on him to you, Neither would he tell you how his day went.

6. This act makes the child to be full of thoughts of he's done something wrong. He'll want to hide it.

7. It'll give him inferiority complex when his peers are talking well about their parents if you keep up with this act.

8. When he's all grown up, he'll be thankful that your discipline actually made him to take a right part (that's if he learnt from his mistakes rather than let anger over shadow him).

9. When he becomes a parent, he'll keep up with this act towards his children

10. And so runs the circle

The friendly (cool way)

1. This type is done in most developed countries with high value for human rights and children welfare

2. This is done by parents who are either feel no love for their children or parents who truly love their children that they don't want to see them cry

3. This act (advice) brings the child to his right senses and would allow you to study the child by the time he starts expressing himself

4. Grounding a child even in his own room makes the child to feel caged and generally, everyone yearns freedom.

5. He'll do anything not to be caged.

6. Children who are disciplined in a cool way tend to love their parents more and no child plays with the love he has for his father.

7. He'll be able to relate/tell others about how his parents are the best

8. This method would thus allow the child to progress more in life (for the ones that know their errors)

9. This method would definitely be carried on to the next generation

10. And so the circle runs.

Now we've distinguished both ways. Let's take some time in viewing observations from both parties

1. Children disciplined in a terrible way can't relate how cool their parents are but the others can

2. Looking at the world today, you'll notice that children disciplined in the right way, have better IQ than the others

3. Countries which discipline children anyhow are less developed

With this three facts, we know that beating up children isn't the right way. 

If a child's mind could be corrected, it would take correction even from self meditation. If a child's mind can't be corrected, not even threatening the child can correct him. So let's do things the right way. Let's do things the cool way.

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