Your behavior could mean the way you act towards situations. It's either good, or bad.
It could be influenced by the people around you. Sometimes, you'll feel that there's this character of yours that's bad (it may not really be bad, it may just appear bad because the people around you aren't supportive).
It could be influenced by the people around you. Sometimes, you'll feel that there's this character of yours that's bad (it may not really be bad, it may just appear bad because the people around you aren't supportive).
This post would enlighten you about changing a behavior.
Before you change this behavior, make sure you take note of the following
1. Don't change because of someone
2. Change only if you've realised it's a nasty character that drives all sorts of people from you (the good, the bad, the ugly).
3. Make sure you already know your substitute character in replacing this previous one.
1. Don't change because of someone
2. Change only if you've realised it's a nasty character that drives all sorts of people from you (the good, the bad, the ugly).
3. Make sure you already know your substitute character in replacing this previous one.
If truly you must change after studying the above, then follow these steps
1. Always feel junky if you act that way
The first step in changing a character is not been proud of it. Acknowledge that it's not the best for you
2. Find influence
When you're ready to change from that nasty character, find someone or people who display a better character you would like to display. Keep socialising with them.
3. Meditate
Meditation is simply thinking. Apply meditation into this issue every morning and evening. In the evening, think and remember all your flaws in the day then in the morning, think about how you could behave in a more mature way than yesterday. If you continue this for about three months, when faced with a situation to display a funny character, you'll behave well. By then your mind would remind you of what you've been meditating about.
4. Don't hide remorse
Yep, if you know your previous attitude hurt someone, apologise. In this way, you won't behave like that whenever you're with that person.
5. Clear your conscience
After you've apologised to whoever you've wronged before and you know that you're now behaving in a matured way, forgive yourself and think about the future.
6. Keep on meditating
Apart from this issue, meditation can cure you of many other flaws. So always meditate. In this way, you'll know yourself better.
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