Choosing someone to spend the rest of your life is something. Knowing your reason for choosing that person is another. This post would show some aspects a woman should consider before saying I do. Note it's just a friendly advice though.
1. Not (never) money
A woman shouldn't marry a man or like a man because of his wealth. She's simply diminishing her value. She's simply not been confident of herself, no self worth, and isn't/doesn't want to be empowered. A woman with a source of revenue won't want money from men. She'll be able to cater for her needs by herself.
A woman shouldn't marry a man or like a man because of his wealth. She's simply diminishing her value. She's simply not been confident of herself, no self worth, and isn't/doesn't want to be empowered. A woman with a source of revenue won't want money from men. She'll be able to cater for her needs by herself.
2. God fearing
This is a feature that a capable husband should possess. A capable husband wouldn't beat/cheat on his wife, wouldn't cause stress and wouldn't just view the people of his house like his followers. He'll want to explain the reason of his actions and decisions so his wife and children would know his reason.
This is a feature that a capable husband should possess. A capable husband wouldn't beat/cheat on his wife, wouldn't cause stress and wouldn't just view the people of his house like his followers. He'll want to explain the reason of his actions and decisions so his wife and children would know his reason.
3. Not stingy to his nuclear siblings
Any man who doesn't give to his family members (willingly), would definitely find it hard to give to his wife. Although the wife might be working, she might need assistance at some given time. Giving grudgingly is a bad trait for men.
Any man who doesn't give to his family members (willingly), would definitely find it hard to give to his wife. Although the wife might be working, she might need assistance at some given time. Giving grudgingly is a bad trait for men.
4. Fun loving and self worth
Any man who knows fun (drinking with friends, playing with family) and also has self worth for himself (knows when to stop) is like the perfect man. First of all, the marriage won't be boring. Second of all, he wouldn't stress you by thinking too much about when he'll come home today.
Any man who knows fun (drinking with friends, playing with family) and also has self worth for himself (knows when to stop) is like the perfect man. First of all, the marriage won't be boring. Second of all, he wouldn't stress you by thinking too much about when he'll come home today.
5. Physical features
Wanting a man cause of his physical features like been handsome, height, built body isn't a bad reason. It simply means you're willing to enjoy the little things life has to offer.
Wanting a man cause of his physical features like been handsome, height, built body isn't a bad reason. It simply means you're willing to enjoy the little things life has to offer.
As a note to women, only you know what you want from men. This post would just open your eyes to these aspects. As a remembrance, never marry a man cause of his money because if the marriage ends, you'll be left with nothing.
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