Been in a place where you are alone could have effects both positive and negative on you. When you're idle(meaning doing nothing) also have effects on you. This post would combine the effects of both words and show them to you.
First of all, let's discuss about the positive effects:
1. Makes you meditate*
When you're alone you'll be able to think deep into your life. You'll be able to find out in which area of your life you may work on. Meditation is a good cure for life's struggles. Meditation leads to the second point
2. Allows your mind to be free*
Note that been idle/lonely itself doesn't free your mind. The thoughts in your mind may be freed when you've mediated and sorted out why your mind is bothering you. For instance, you may have done something wrong and your conscience may prick you. When you've started having feeling of remorse, meditation would show you the wrong you've done and what's the next step in correcting your actions. All these are possible and done only when you're alone.
3. You'll be able to rest
The struggles in this world are becoming more and more unbearable. If you're alone, you could relax a little and feel refreshed. It's important that you get a free time off this hot sun.
4. You're experiencing life's little things*
The little things in life, as defined by my earlier post, means experiences, feeling and actions that may not be viewed as compulsory but are definitely necessary. If you've got a mission, too much focus on it may cut off a large part of life's experience from you. When you relax, enjoy yourself and life in general.
Now what are the disadvantages of been idle/alone?
1. Overwhelming thoughts* If you don't use your free time well, you may be harming yourself by thinking too much. You may be thinking of something and from there, another subject would just enter your mind. At this point, it's important you know that your mind wouldn't fully leave the previous subject you're thinking about. When you continue thinking from subject to subject, you'll overwhelm your mind.
2. You'll be what you don't want to be Everything that has disadvantages always have advantages. You may have once promised yourself not to engage in an act(maybe watching porn). By the time you're alone, you have a lot of time to think why watching porn is bad. You also have a lot of time to find out advantages in watching porn. This means that been alone/idle may make you go beyond what you think you can do.
3. You'll engage in uncontrollable acts Let's say masturbating for example. Masturbating is not done in a way people would know what you're doing. How can others help/advise you when they don't know what you're doing? When you're alone, you may start developing some acts that are very hard to stop.
4. You'll live double lives
If you've now fully started acting on ways that people can't know about or help you, you've started to live a double life. How? People know you as this meanwhile you're also that. If you meet a friend that also engages in what you do while alone, you'll both be attached to each other. This way, you have friends for one character of yours and also have friends for another character of yours.
Leaving a double life is that worst thing that can ever happen to someoneTruly, been idle/lonely is a feeling which gives you result based on how you use it. Use it well.
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